Children will not always tell you that abuse is occurring. They may be scared, embarrassed, or unsure of what is happening to them. children may exhibit some of the signs and symptoms listed here.
Neglect is an ongoing pattern of failing to provide for a child’s basic needs.
- Obvious malnourishment and hunger; stealing or begging for food
- Lack of personal cleanliness; torn and/or dirty clothing
- Abandonment; child is unattended for long periods of time
- Reports that no caretaker is at home or consistent lack of supervision
- Need for glasses, dental care, or other medical attention; unattended medical needs
- Frequent tardiness or absences from school
Emotional Abuse is any attitude, behavior, or failure to act that interferes with a child’s mental health or social development.
- Over compliance and/or low self-esteem
- Severe depression, anxiety, or aggression
- Difficulty making friends or doing things with other children
- Lagging in physical, emotional, and intellectual development
- Caregiver who belittles the child, withholds love, and seems unconcerned about the child’s problems
Sexual Abuse of a child is any sexual act between an adult and a child. Sexual touching between children can also be sexual abuse when there is a significant size, developmental, or age difference.
- Inappropriate interest in or knowledge of sexual acts
- Extreme fear of being alone with adults of a certain sex or a particular person
- Knowledge of sexual relations beyond what is expected of a child’s age
- Sexual victimization of other children
- Evidence of injury to the genital area
- Difficulty in sitting or walking
- Threatened by physical contact and/or closeness
Physical Abuse is an injury resulting from physical aggression. An injury may be the result of hitting, choking, kicking, pinching, biting, hair-pulling, burning with cigarettes or other hot objects, or severe physical punishment.
- Frequent injuries, such as bruises, cuts, black eyes, or burns without adequate explanations
- Frequent complaints of pain without obvious injury; complains of soreness or moves uncomfortably
- Burns or bruises in unusual patterns that may indicate the use of an instrument or human bite; cigarette burns on any part of the body
- Lack of reaction to pain
- Passive, withdrawn, and emotionless behavior
- Fear of going home or seeing specific persons
- Injuries that appear after a child has not been seen for several days
- Unreasonable clothing that may hide injuries to arms or legs
- Bizarre explanation of injuries; child’s injury is too severe to have been caused by the incident described